Working with teenagers over the years, I have watched so many struggle with self-image. Our media-centric culture makes this especially tough on teen girls. Photo-shopped celebrities, plastic surgery and teams of makeup and hair artists consistently create an unreal image that many girls believe is the norm – even if only subconsciously.
In the past few years, you may have seen one of the Deidox films which are produced as a short documentary about someone and their faith. I came across this one today and it was so moving that it brought tears to my eyes. Alyssa has been blind from birth. She always wondered what she looked like until God spoke to her one day and reminded her of something.
“He is the only one that can tell me what I look like; the mirror can’t.” – Alyssa
Deidox | Alyssa from Deidox on Vimeo.
I have a teenage daughter.
My wife and I want her to know she is beautiful as God made her. No media outlet, magazine, celebrity or “friend” has the right to tell her otherwise. As Alyssa said, God is the only one that can tell her what she looks like.
The same is true for all of us.